The major life milestone of turning 40 is often a time of reflection and transition. Below are five brutally honest things every woman should know when hitting the big 4-0. Thanks to Tespo for sponsoring this post.
So you’re about to hit 40—your “fabulous 40s,” some say. And they’d be right—But only if you choose for these years to be fabulous…
You see, some people believe we have the choice to live “two lives” within our one lifetime—that we’re presented with a fork in the road during this 40-something transition period of our lives, when we have one seemingly simple choice: We can either get busy living by embracing what’s to come in “Act II” or we can make excuses for not participating in life the way we once did and thereby get busy dying.
Take a minute right now to stop and think about this pivotal choice…
Think about your parents.
Think about older friends and co-workers and relatives.
How have they chosen to handle their Act II?
Personally, I was shocked by how easily the people I know seemed to fall under one category or the other. I immediately smiled, thinking of my father, who started doing triathlons in his 50s. I also thought of my mentor, Patti, who decided to follow her dreams and travel abroad to New Zealand solo in her 60s. Then my heart sank as I thought of other people I care about who fall on the opposite side of the spectrum.
If you do a bit of research, one fact becomes apparent: How we respond to the changes going on with our bodies now—in our 40s—can greatly affect the quality and outcome of our Act II. At 40, we have to make the conscious choice to get busy living NOW, while we still feel young and healthy.
Women begin to go through many subtle physical changes when turning 40. To help you better appreciate and respond to these natural life changes, I’d like to share 5 brutal truths about turning 40 and what each health reality means to you if you decide you’re going to choose to fully embrace your Act II and steer yourself toward healthy aging from the inside out.
BRUTAL TRUTH #1: The gig is up. You’re no longer going to be able to fly by the seat of your pants, ordering and eating whatever and whenever you wish, and still keep your health in check. As you age, your metabolism tends to decelerate by about 5% for every decade of life past age 40 (source). That means you’ll have to focus on reducing your caloric intake (or increasing your exercise routine) during your 40s just to maintain your present weight. (Yeesh. I said these were going to be brutal.)
WHAT THIS MEANS: We women who are 40+ need to start showing our bodies even more respect in order to stay healthy.
Your body is your temple. Keep it pure and clean for the soul to reside in. —B.K.S. Iyengar
It’s time for us to stop eating so much processed junk and to embrace REAL FOOD. There are so many amazing resources for healthy eating, so many that it can sometimes feel overwhelming. Not sure where to begin? Check out Essential Resources for Healthy Eating Recipes for inspiration. Here are a few more of my favorite places for getting started:
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A new place I’m starting to cut processed junk from is my vitamins. Did you know it’s estimated that 90% of supplements use ingredients that are just manufacturing fillers? Read the “other” ingredients on the back of your container of pills, and you’ll probably find things like Magnesium Stearate, which offers no nutritional value. Check out this list of…
We women take supplements to keep our bodies healthy, yet when we take pills, our body absorbs only a fraction of the nutrients we think we’re getting. Liquid vitamins have an 85%+ absorption rate into the body, compared with 10 to 15% for pills and tablets. So, I’ve made the switch to Tespo liquid vitamins.
Tespo is a win-win when it comes to supplements: They offer easily absorbed liquid vitamins (that actually taste good!) and a complete system that provides high-quality, premium ingredients. In other words, pure ingredients with no manufacturing additives. AKA: No artificial flavors, binders, or unnecessary stuff. I couldn’t be happier with the switch. Check out the Tespo website for more info.
BRUTAL TRUTH #2: It’s already starting—the dreaded M-word. Even though most of us won’t go through menopause until 50+, our bodies start changing years before that. Here’s the haps: Your estrogen levels will start to vary, the chemicals in your brain will begin to change, and all of that chaos combined with the stresses of daily life can lead to depression.
There are a lot of factors that come into play with depression, and it obviously differs for each person, but it is something that should be on your radar. Studies show the age of women with the highest level of depression is 44. Unfortunately, because women feel as though the changes in their hormones is natural, they don’t seek professional help and often unnecessarily fall into an even deeper depression.
WHAT THIS MEANS: It’s time to start valuing the power of “me time.” Schedule an ongoing Girls Night Out with your friends. Instead of trying to coordinate from month to month, pick a standing date to keep things simple. For example, the second Thursday of each month. Want to take it to the next level? You might even consider planning a Momcation together. Don’t underestimate the power of friends and laughter to rejuvenate your spirits.
And if you struggle with long winters like I do, it might be time to make your own sunshine.
Our family has built a small late-winter vacation into our annual budget. One year, the girls and I went to visit my parents on South Padre Island in Texas. Another time, I took a casual trip solo to Charlotte, North Carolina, to visit a friend for a long weekend. You don’t have to stray far from home, though… Something as simple as spending the weekend inside an 80-degree local waterpark can also do wonders for your mood.
And speaking of “making your own sunshine”… Vitamin D is sometimes called the “sunshine vitamin.” This nutrient is notoriously hard to get from food, so you need to be extra vigilant and keep an eye out for these clues that you may not be getting enough Vitamin D. I love that the Tespo Women’s Essential formula includes Vitamin D3, Vitamin K1, and more (see the full ingredient list). And with my busy schedule, it’s incredibly convenient that Tespo delivers monthly vitamins right to my doorstep (making it an effortless way for me to stay on track).
Last of all, a higher risk for depression after 40 means your annual well-visits with your doctor are more important than ever. If you start to show any symptoms of depression, there are a lot of ways to get help. Take advantage of what’s available. Your mental health is just as important as your physical health when it comes to ensuring a happy and healthy Act II.
BRUTAL TRUTH #3: Heart disease is the leading cause of death among women. According to the National Institutes of Health, 1 in 4 of women in the United States dies from heart disease. Many researchers think that a drop in estrogen levels during menopause, combined with other heart disease risk factors, is what causes Coronary Microvascular Disease.
It’s important to note that only half of women who have heart attacks have chest pain. (Chest pain is more common in men.) Women are more likely to report back or neck pain, indigestion, heartburn, feeling sick to the stomach, vomiting, extreme fatigue (tiredness), or problems breathing. Read the heart attack symptoms for women here.
WHAT THIS MEANS: Now is the time to think forward, my friend. There are only a few risk factors—such as age, gender, and family history—that can’t be controlled when it comes to heart disease (source). The rest is up to YOU.
Here’s a tidbit from the National Institutes of Health that really stuck with me:
Many lifestyle habits begin during childhood. Thus, parents and families should encourage their children to make heart-healthy choices, such as following a healthy diet and being physically active. Make following a healthy lifestyle a family goal. Making lifestyle changes can be hard. But if you make these changes as a family, it may be easier for everyone to prevent or control their CHD [coronary heart disease] risk factors.
So NOW is the time to make some lifestyle changes for you AND your children.
Spend time in the kitchen together experimenting with new heart-healthy recipes.
Go for a hike. Shoot hoops in the driveway. Take a bike ride. Sign up for a family walk or run.
Teach your children to be healthy through your actions.
When I started using Tespo supplements, I learned about the heart benefits of CoEnzyme Q-10. CoQ10 is essential for producing the energy your heart needs to beat constantly. It beats 100,000 times a day! Studies have shown CoQ10 to relieve heart failure symptoms, as well as reduce the risk of atrial fibrillation. CoQ10 is included in all of the Tespo Essential Formulas.
Interesting tidbit: CoQ10 is a coenzyme that functions similar to a vitamin. It’s found in every cell of the body and is used to produce energy for cell growth and maintenance and to support cardiovascular health. I invite you to learn more about the helpful ingredients in Tespo formulas.
BRUTAL TRUTH #4: Even if you’ve had 20-20 vision all your life, after turning 40 (and as the birthdays pile up), you might suddenly find yourself with vision-related troubles for the first time. Things like glaucoma, macular degeneration, and cataracts start to become a concern.
WHAT THIS MEANS: Add some rich antioxidants to your diet and get yourself a pair of UVA- and UVB-protection sunglasses.
Too much sun exposure can increase cataracts, so sunglasses are a good idea. Get a funky, retro pair or something snazzy that makes you feel good, and then get out in the beautiful sunshine to rack up that daily mood-boosting Vitamin D.
The American Optometric Association has done some studies that show antioxidant vitamins and mineral supplements reduce the risk of developing advanced age-related macular degeneration by about 25%. Both of the supplements mentioned in their study, Lutein and Zeaxanthin, are premium ingredients included in every Tespo formula (except Energy) to enhance eye health.
Remember: After your 40th birthday, it’s time to get to know an eye doctor. Be sure to sign up for a yearly checkup, even if you’ve never worn glasses or contact lenses.
Healthy Mind & Soul
BRUTAL TRUTH #5: At this period in our lives, we’re bombarded with worries. We have anxiety about our kids being more independent and our parents needing more support, and it’s all topped with concerns about our own health, work, and finances. We’ve got a lot of stress in our lives, and we often feel it’s just going to Keep. On. Coming.
WHAT THIS MEANS: It’s time to find effective ways to achieve balance and to truly unwind. If stress has you anxious, tense, and worried, consider splurging on a regular massage or trying meditation. According to the Mayo Clinic, “Spending even a few minutes in meditation can restore inner peace. Meditation can give you a sense of calm, peace, and balance that benefits both your emotional well-being and your overall health.”
Meditation can help teach you to pay attention to the moment you are in right now—and stop worrying about the past or the future, which is where many of us (wastefully) spend our mental energy. If you need help fitting meditation into your crazy-busy schedule, check out this unique guide from The Abundant Mama: A Busy Mom’s Guide to Meditating without Meditating. It’s a great starting point!
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So, now you know 5 brutal truths about what happens after you turn 40. But more importantly, you learned some healthy tips for aging gracefully from the inside out:
- Healthy Body—Maintaining an unprocessed, lower calorie diet
- Healthy Optimism—Making time for “light and laughter”
- Healthy Heart—Getting physical with family activity
- Healthy Vision—Utilizing rich antioxidants and cool shades
- Healthy Mind & Soul—Finding peace and balance through massage and meditation
While you’ve likely heard many of these recommendations before, the difference is THIS TIME it matters because you’re turning 40. You’re at that point in your life when you get to choose which direction you take. Will you make the daily choices required to get busy living and join me for a healthy Act II? I sure hope so!
A Recent Change for Me
I’ve been taking steps on making meditation, exercise, and nutrition a priority in my life. One thing I’ve never been very good about keeping up with is taking a daily vitamin. It seemed like I always remembered to take my daily pill when I had an empty stomach, which would often make me feel sick, so I’d skip it. Days would often go by before my mind and body seemed to coordinate. Even when my doctor recommended taking a Vitamin D supplement after a lab confirmed deficiency, I just couldn’t get my act together.
I want to give a big thanks to Tespo for introducing me to a complete system that works for me. Here’s what I love about it…
Tespo removed all of the unnecessary ingredients and things that make a pill stick, form, and mold together. The end result? Pure vitamins and minerals in a powdered form. All you have to do is push a button and the Tespo dispenser adds water and mixes your chosen formula right there for you. It’s that easy. I have my dispenser set up right next to my coffee machine as a daily visual reminder. (And I know it’s silly, but I love that the little vitamin discs look like flowers. Totally makes me smile!)
So basically, it’s one push of a button for pure vitamins that taste good and don’t upset my stomach. I also feel good knowing liquid vitamins have an 85%+ absorption rate into my body (compared with 10 to 15% for pills and tablets). I feel like I’m getting more for my dollar, my time, and most importantly… my health.
I’m super excited because for a short time, Tespo is offering 35% off a dispenser exclusively for Lasso the Moon readers. Simply use this code when ordering: LassoTheMoon
They gave me the opportunity to test out their system, and I’m really digging it. You can try it, too—risk free—with their 30-day Happiness Guarantee. If you aren’t completely satisfied with the taste, the convenience, the benefits, or (heck!) even the color, simply send it back. It’s that easy.
Tespo currently has five formulas: Women’s Essential, Men’s Essential, Children’s Essential, Focus, and Energy. See the perks of each formula here. Right now, I’m using the Women’s Essential formula to help boost my Vitamin D after a looong Wisconsin winter. Next month, I’m going to try the Energy formula and see how it feels.
THIS is part of my Act II game plan. If you want to give it a whirl too, check out their site. If you have any questions about my experience with Tespo, the liquid vitamins, or even the dispenser, let me know in the comments below.
Here’s to a beautiful Act II, my friends. Break a leg.
Disclosure: These statements have not been evaluated by the FDA. The tips and the info provided in this article is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any disease. I received one or more of the products or services mentioned above for free in the hope that I would mention it on my blog. This is a “sponsored post.” The company who sponsored it compensated me via a cash payment, gift, or something else of value to write it. Regardless, I only recommend products or services I use personally and believe will add value to my readers. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”